Life Events It seems like there are times in one’s life where changes keep cropping up, one after the other. Quitting the day job, along with most of the rest of the team, when the boss changed. Taking on a course of self directed study for a new career. Deciding to sell the house in Minnesota and move back to California, along with all the prep work involved in getting the house for sale.

It can feel unreal how death of family or a close friend affects one. You do those things you’re supposed to do, but you’ll find yourself staring into space at odd points. You go to sleep on time, but, even if you don’t wake up, it’s not as restful as it should be. There will be other little things that happen, different with every person. With me, as I walk through this city that the deceased was such a large part of, I find myself remembering what I did with them as I pass certain buildings, or enter certain neighborhoods.

Family Health Issues It is difficult to see a loved one with severe health issues. Where they were strong throughout their life, seeing them unable to stand on their own is heartrending. At least, in this case, there seems to be little pain. Just an exhaustion that’s bone deep, particularly in the afternoon, or after helping them to move. That, and the indignities of the needed assistance. My Health Issues It also makes me reflect on my own health.